Wait! Are You Really About to 'Confess'...? How to Get to a Relationship Without a Confession Ambush

Have you ever heard the term 'confession ambush'?

When, and at what point, should you confess your feelings so that it's a real confession and not a confession ambush?

The truth is, confessing isn't something you do at the stage of 'will this person really say yes...?'. It's something you do when you're both nearly on the same page, to get certainty.

Hardly anyone doesn't know this, but most of the trouble comes from assuming the other person feels the same way you do. Just like how Young-sik from season 24 of the dating show I Am Solo became the show's biggest villain!

So let's take a look at what the objectively right timing for a confession actually is.

Wait! If you don't yet have a solid understanding of the pre-talking stage and the talking stage, I'd recommend reading the columns below first!

Understanding the pre-talking stage